Respect and Relationship

Someone said "You can't force someone to respect you, But you can refuse to be disrespected". Sorry I could not recall the one who wrote this quote. Is it really needed to prove that you are worth respecting? Just be true to yourself and people will realize that you are a person that is not a hypocrite and has nothing to hide. Any relationship is all about respect. Relationship lasts when there is an immense respect in it. Mood swings affects relationships. Many people say mood swings in relationship are normal. No one is in happy mood all the time. But what if someone is frequently suffering from mood swings? It depends on the activities that are happening in your life. When something pleasant happens to you-you smile, laugh, express happiness but when unpleasant-you frown, get angry, express unhappiness. Many times all of a sudden we shout at someone only because we want that thing to be perfect. But only because of expressing unhappiness someone is blamed and misunderstood. This should not happen in a relation. Don't expect much in a relation. Our dear ones are very precious so handle with care, yes do handle with care because emotions for every individual are different. Some take life seriously, some take it sincerely. Try to support in any way but in return if you feel the support do appreciate, it will make your relation more stronger. One should feel secure in a relationship. Because of this security one respects or disrespects a relation. O God please give everyone with the strong positive security. Many individuals has multitasking capability but that does not mean that you should expect multitasking with someone. God has gifted every one with different emotions, different way of thinking, different priorities, different environment etc.. so don't take anyone granted and preserve the relation so that it will last long long. I am very glad that my husband appreciate me, my writing, my activities. A blessed relation...